A fantastic first time visitor on the podcast as we speak as Dotun Olubeko, winner of Bachelorette season 21 now up wherever you take heed to your podcasts and on my YouTube channel. Wanna thank BetUS for connecting Dotun and I for this interview. First time ever talking with him and I’ve them to thank for it. Click on on BetUS to test it out. By no means thought that Dotun and I might join, however hey, right here we’re. We had so much to go over since his life has been a whirlwind for a great 12 months now. We discuss Jenn’s finale, focus on the likelihood that maaaaaaaybe he spoiled his personal season (hey, I needed to ask), he has some questions for Actuality Steve he wished to get off his chest, being in a public relationship, does DWTS have an effect on {couples}, and far, far more. Nice time with Dotun as we speak and I hope you all get pleasure from this dialog.
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YOUR DAILY ROUNDUP 9/5 TRANSCRIPT
You might be listening to the Day by day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A very good Thursday present for you, though a few of you may be receiving this on Thursday night time or Wednesday night time as a result of as you already know, I’m heading out of city. within the morning and I simply wished to get all of your podcasts up proper now.
So we’re going to speak extra about gen season, every little thing that went down yesterday, issues that occurred on social media. We’ve acquired so much to cowl in as we speak’s podcast and we are going to get to that momentarily. I do need to say this, your whole stuff is coming tonight. So day by day roundup you’re listening to proper now in about quarter-hour from now, the sports activities day by day shall be up after which about quarter-hour after that, 1230 AM central time is when your episode, your weekly podcast episode quantity 4 Oh seven with Dotton Alabeco is occurring tonight.
It’ll be on my YouTube channel at 1230 AM. Central time must be in your podcast feed a bit bit earlier than that. So you’re getting every little thing tonight. I simply need to have the ability to get up tomorrow morning, bathe, get in my automobile, go to the airport and never have to fret about stuff. I’d retweet a few of the stuff that I put out tonight and simply say, Hey, for these of you that have been sleeping.
After I posted these items, it’s up after which tomorrow’s day by day roundup and sports activities day by day are each already loaded and able to go. At the moment was actually most likely one of many busiest days. Not solely did it should be the day after the finale, but it surely’s additionally a day the place I did three interviews and recorded 5 podcasts.
Like I simply, I procrastinated tomorrow’s a podcast visitor on the day by day roundup is Kristen Burtt, who’s an leisure reporter for Dem dancing with the celebrities. So we spend about 35 minutes speaking about that. My sports activities day by day tomorrow was already pre recorded, however I nonetheless needed to report an open and an in depth.
I recorded with Dotton as we speak. I recorded as we speak’s sports activities day by day and I recorded this podcast. So yeah, 5 podcasts, three interviews. Busy, busy day, however I’m clear till Sunday night time once I report Mondays, a day by day roundup and a sports activities day by day. However I simply didn’t need to should report something. Ravens and chiefs are tonight.
I’ll be in Vegas and I didn’t need to have to return to my room after the sport at like, effectively, it’ll be about eight 30, 9 o’clock on a Thursday night time in Vegas, and so they didn’t need to return to my room and spend an hour there recording two podcasts. In order that they’re all set. Loaded, able to go tomorrow. All proper, so let’s get going with some extra bachelorette stuff.
Some issues that got here to me from that I possibly didn’t get to yesterday. Regarding the finale, nothing new to report with reference to what I heard from the one that messaged me. I’m nonetheless making an attempt to work out some particulars and discover out, clearly I need to vet this correctly and need to be certain that.
However I don’t know. If I can, this particular person, you already know, somebody contacted me that is aware of one thing about any individual else. And I’m like, effectively, I would like to speak to that any individual else particular person instantly. I imply, I, I’m not saying I’m doubting your story, however I must go straight to the supply right here and the person who’s probably concerned.
So I’m simply ready to listen to again from them and see if they will put me in contact. Or if that different particular person even desires to talk, I. Don’t know, and I can’t drive them to in the event that they don’t need to some issues that I simply by no means went over within the finale. The present itself. I believed Jen’s brother was glorious. I imply, that man killed it very, you already know, he wasn’t like gung ho, like lots of these households are skeptical, however he was skeptical with a delicate facet about it.
He wasn’t simply coming down on the blokes. He was asking good questions. Crucial factor about James, her brother was, you already know, Whereas we have been watching the episode of what occurred again in Hawaii, the stay shot of him in his seat just about advised the entire story. The man by no means cracked a smile as soon as.
After which you will have Jesse asking him after we watched each guys meet James and the household. We had Jesse ask him, how are you feeling proper now? He’s like, not too completely happy proper now. So we form of knew that at that time he wouldn’t say that if Jen was completely happy and in a relationship and nonetheless engaged. So we form of knew what was coming, however.
It was very telling to say the least however James, he knocked it out of the park on that episode for certain. You understand, the extra I give it some thought, the extra bothered I’m by them displaying the proposal. And sure, I’m very effectively conscious that Jen stated in a number of interviews yesterday that she, she knew it was coming.
She knew they have been going to point out the proposal. She knew it was going to be an emotional night time for her and so they knew, and she or he stated, I used to be not stunned in any respect. They didn’t shock me and throw that on me. She goes, I knew it was coming, which is okay, however that doesn’t make it proper. It doesn’t imply, Hey, we gave her a heads up.
She knew we have been going to point out it. I don’t assume that’s the query that must be requested. The query that must be requested is why did you must present it? Whether or not they confirmed it in, and a few individuals are saying, effectively, I feel they, I didn’t have an issue displaying them displaying it. They need to have confirmed it within the regular sequence.
And once we, so we normally see proposals occur. I’m like, I don’t assume it issues, you already know? And, and the most important drawback I’ve with it’s the truth that I stated it yesterday, however I need to repeat this once more. That is the difficulty. We noticed her dump Marcus. Then the following scene is Devin going to fulfill Neil Lane to take a look at rings.
After which proper after that scene, Jesse Palmer, we get again to a stay shot of Jesse Palmer on the sofa saying, Hey, usually presently, very completely happy second, we might present you the proposal, however we’re not going to try this as a consequence of what’s occurred since that day. After which they’ve two segments of Jen sitting on the sofa crying.
And then you definitely present it prefer it simply doesn’t make any sense once they particularly advised us we’re not going to point out it. He didn’t say at that time, we’re not going to point out it now. We need to discuss it and we’ll present it later. I simply, it made no sense. And this present can say no matter they need. No one has come out but from the present and defended them displaying the proposal.
I doubt anyone will. Jesse’s going to be requested about it sooner or later, I might assume, however my level is nothing that they are saying, and I do know their reply goes to be like, we wished to point out Jen that she was an empowering lady at that and the way sturdy she was on that day. I’m sorry. That’s not adequate.
She didn’t should see that. You probably did it to get a viral TV second and to get folks speaking. You probably did it for tv functions, not since you have been looking for Jen’s emotions. The woman was already a multitude for 2 straight segments, and then you definitely made her watch that once more. And I do know she stated, look, I wished Devin to look at it, however Devin wished no a part of it both.
Sat there along with his head down, and Jen sat there crying. Once more. Which I imply, how may you not watching that again along with your ex fiance sitting proper subsequent to you? It was simply so not elegant. It was humiliating. It was embarrassing and it by no means ought to have been proven interval. Finish of story. There’s nothing they will say to persuade me.
Oh, I see their facet. I simply don’t. I don’t see it. It was a tv stunt executed to get folks speaking, which clearly it labored. Individuals are speaking about it as we speak. Everyone’s speaking about it as we speak. I can’t imagine they made her sit via that proposal that they acquired what they wished. It doesn’t make it proper.
Devin on the sofa saying, you already know, yeah, regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt. That’s his greatest clarification. Actually? That’s all you could possibly give you? You’ve had three and a half months since Might sixteenth to formulate one thing higher than that. And all he may say was, Regretfully, I used to be late on letting you know the way I felt.
Once more, folks on this franchise are allowed to get off the present. I’m speaking about ultimate {couples}. You’re allowed to get off the present, have your completely happy couple visits, begin attending to know one another extra and notice, Oh shit, possibly this isn’t gonna work out between us. That’s completely acceptable. In actual fact, it’s the norm on the present.
Trigger far more {couples} break up than truly keep collectively. Once more, my largest challenge with Devin will not be that he couldn’t be suitable with Jen or that Jen couldn’t be suitable with him, or they wouldn’t have made it longterm. It’s the truth that the love bombing occurred for the final 4 episodes. And as Jen stated, which is confirmed by Dotton, whenever you hear on this interview as we speak, Dotton tells me, I noticed Jen proper after filming ended at CMA Fest and she or he stated then one thing’s form of off.
He stated she didn’t spoil something for me, however she’s like one thing’s form of off. One thing’s bizarre. That was CMA Fest. That was like possibly per week after they acquired again from filming, finish of Might. In order that’s what I imply. What Jen stated was confirmed by Dotton on Podcast quantity 407 arising in about an hour from now, half hour from now, no matter, 1230 a.
m. He’s Central Normal Time. It was confirmed by him. She wasn’t mendacity on the stage when she stated she felt like he was distant from the time they left Hawaii and one foot out the door. Like, I imply, I, I stated it on Dave’s stay Monday night time after the present. And I’ll say it once more. If he would have simply went for a month or two months and notice, man, it’s not working between us and simply had, and so they broke up earlier than the present.
Yeah, it could have sucked. It’s occurred earlier than although, on the present the place they couldn’t even make it. The ultimate couple couldn’t make it to after the ultimate rose, however. We simply not getting a solution to, Hey, I couldn’t stay as much as your expectations, Jen. Okay. Why couldn’t you reside as much as the expectations? Inform us, inform us the way you felt the place you simply, you get off the, you get off the Island in Hawaii and also you’re similar to, I’m not drawn to her.
I don’t discover her enticing in any respect. Was it, she snores throughout her, when she sleeps? I don’t know. I’m simply saying, give us a purpose. You gave us nothing and that’s why it’s very exhausting to imagine something he says, particularly when he says, regretfully, I’m late on letting you already know, I ought to’ve let you already know. I couldn’t stay as much as your expectations and also you weren’t the particular person you need to have been round me.
I similar to, I’m sorry. He’s like placing it again on her to nearly take warmth off himself. Like, you already know, the just about. Virtually the, it’s not, it’s not you, it’s me. So I completely perceive the place he simply didn’t have the balls to come back out and inform her why he wasn’t, why he wasn’t feeling it along with her anymore. And I’m sorry once I’ve heard all of the issues that I’ve heard for the final 4 months.
After which I discover out that this man principally checked out from the second he left Hawaii.
It’s very simple to imagine he conned her and he was by no means going to be critical about this relationship. He went on the present to win a recreation present in his thoughts. And you already know, I don’t know the way recreation of roses is speaking about this, however wouldn’t he technically be like the best recreation participant on this present’s historical past as a result of he received the ring or no matter, and, after which bolted, he did every little thing he wanted to do to win.
Like if it’s all about profitable, Devin may be one of many best gamers ever. But when it’s all about the way you deal with folks, he’s most likely one of many worst. In order that’s what I imply. It’s simply, he’s not a great man. Sorry. There’s no different approach round it. And the best way he handled her, the best way he acted on stage, so aloof, didn’t appear to take accountability for something.
Simply got here throughout as terrible.
